Just finished reading one of the latest posts of Steve Pavlina, as usual he is awsome despite his latest million post on raw food :)
i couldn't help it, i felt like i have to quote this from his last week post.
The only way to win consistently at life is to regard every situation as a learning experience. That’s the only outcome you can really guarantee. If you make that your primary aim, losing becomes impossible.
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